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Couples counseling reprograms your relationship thermostat
“I’m freezing!” “It feels like a sauna in here!” Have you ever fought over the thermostat, trying to find a comfortable setting? It’s one of those classic battles that couples often have over temperature comfort. I see something similar that goes [...]
The USA Needs Marriage Counseling
The USA needs marriage counseling. I don’t mean counseling for the couples, but help for the 325 million people who are at such odds with one another right now. Watching the nation through the presidential election process and aftermath, I wish [...]
Christian counseling that’s right for you
So you’re looking for Christian counseling. You’ve searched the internet for “Christian counseling near me” and you don’t know what to make of the mixed results. I get the confusion. When I look at search results just for Lake Forest, where [...]
Spice your sex with Salt ‘N’ Pepa
Salt ’N’ Pepa were on to something when they sang their 1991 song, Let's talk about sex . Let’s talk about sex, baby Let’s talk about you and me Let’s talk about all the good things And the bad things that [...]
A Red Pill for Your Relationship “Matrix”
While doing marriage counseling with Orange County couples, I often see them struggle to stay connected with a current conversation because they become triggered by fears of losing connection with their partner. When that happens, all current reality is lost and they both spin [...]
A relationship lesson from Grover
When it comes to change and growth, it’s easy to understand that it is a process without perfect progress. Just like the stock market, things go up and things go down, but the overall trajectory is upward. The [...]